On Coziness

I am a cozy girl.

I love to be wrapped in a blanket, my feet curled up under me. I love soft, comfortable clothes and I am always wearing slippers. Making sure that I'm physically comfortable is an important way for me to care for myself, something I've always tried to do with intention.

The dictionary defines cozy as "enjoying or affording warmth and ease". I define it as a deep inner sense of feeling safe and lovingly supported. I was thinking about what it means to cultivate an essence and spirit of coziness in other areas of my life.

Here's part of my list:

☕ Coziness in my relationship looks like both of us feeling safe to share, morning cuddles, laughter.

☕ Coziness in my friendships looks like truth telling and showing up as our unfiltered selves with no need for pretense.

☕ Coziness in my finances looks like creating a budget and having emergency savings in the amount that makes me feel at ease.

☕ Coziness in my body looks like cycle synced movement, eating intuitively, dancing, trust.

☕ Coziness in my home looks like natural light, fresh flowers, dim lighting, bright colours, and music.

You are worthy of being embraced with ease and comfort, with coziness.

✍🏿✍🏾✍🏽✍🏼✍🏻Prompt: What does it look like for you to cultivate the feeling of coziness in various parts of your life?